Table for one? Yes Please.

“She’s single, not because she can’t find a man, but because she’s waiting for the right man to come along and make her feel so secure in the relationship that loving him just comes natural and easy.” – Amari Soul Reflections of a Man. 

When you’re in a relationship the most important thing is maintaining your own person, I know how exciting the feeling of falling in love is (it really does feel like you’re on cloud 9) and when it comes the time to move on, you’re going to continually crave to be a part of someone else.

So yea It’s been 3 years and I’m still single!!! in the past 3 years I’ve been looking for someone who will be MINE unfortunately these days the word mine simply doesn’t have the same meaning to everyone.

So let me clarify;

*Mine doesn’t have another significant other – no confusion just me and him! Ain’t no becky with no good hair behavior 

*Mine isn’t confused about wanting to be with me, none of that oh i don’t know where I’m going mess (we need to stop making life difficult for one another… in this day and age it’s so easy to just make excuses for our significant other just because we want someone to hold onto and call bae ‘is it really that deep?’

Ladies let’s be tough and accept that if someone wants to be with us, there is no ifs and definitely no buts.

I believe as women we just know! ‘before we all come and start becoming like our aunti toke’

It’s a natural intuition, we know when the person is right and is after our heart but somehow we still go chasing wind. Key word being after our heart; connections are made with the heart and not the tongue.

3 years in the world of dating is classified as forever…. Over the past 3 years I have discovered a lot about myself. I have to tell you it’s not been easy, being in a relationship gives some sort of solace and self-confidence that I really can’t explain but then again being single and mingling has also been really exciting.

I’m not even really sure I’m even ready to settle down with anyone at this stage but I do feel like everyone around me seems to be getting their life together and I’m just here doing ‘baby girl’. It’s not an easy feat being a single girl in 2017, where everyone is becoming a Mrs upandan… I feel like I’m just being left behind.

These days I find myself asking questions like;

‘maybe I should have tried harder? maybe I shouldn’t have been so strong-headed? maybe I should have been a little bit more submissive? maybe I shouldn’t have cared about the other girl ? maybe be this, may be that….. I could go on with the questions, but then that’s no fun !

Maybe we can work through this journey together 🙂


I’m Sharon by the way and look forward to hearing more from me soon 😉

Love Sharon x

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